Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko’s future is looking rosy after they got engaged on The Bachelorette.
“I left [Dotun’s] last-chance date and that was when I made that just executive decision of like, ‘This is it,’” Charity exclusively told Us Weekly in August 2023 of the moment she knew Dotun was The One. “And as we know, I did have a very solid connection with Joey [Graziadei, my runner-up]. So leading up to those moments, a lot of things were at play, different things were moving and shifting every single day.”
While Charity was previously torn between Dotun and Joey, she ultimately sent the tennis pro home on proposal day. Dotun went on to pop the question with a Neil Lane sparkler.
“Charity, you’ve inspired me. You’ve shown me that a good thing can really just be a good thing,” Dotun gushed during his televised proposal in Fiji. “The love that we have is perfect. And so, Miss Charity Lawson, would you do me the honor of turning this fairy tale into a reality?”
Charity accepted Dotun’s proposal — and gave him the final rose. Keep reading for the pair’s full relationship timeline:
Out of the Limo, Into the Bachelor Mansion
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Back-to-Back Dates
Dotun was the only Bachelorette season 20 contestant to receive two one-on-one dates — in successive weeks. One week after they bungee-jumped in Stevenson, Washington, Charity invited Dotun to run a marathon with her in New Orleans.
Charity later told Us in August 2023 that their first date was “life-changing.” She added: “Along the journey has been beautiful, but I made [my final] decision at his last chance date.”
Hometown Sweeties
Dotun was initially disheartened that his parents were unavailable to attend his hometown date due to their previously scheduled vacation to Nigeria. Charity was set to meet her man’s siblings and grandmother before her future in-laws made a surprise appearance. Dotun’s mom even proclaimed that if the consultant was Charity’s choice, she would host an elaborate Nigerian wedding.
Dotun and Charity’s families met for the first time in person — after “lots of FaceTimes” — during After The Final Rose in August 2023.
“They love each other! It’s been so fun,” the child and family therapist gushed to Us. “They’re just cutting up together, which is what we imagine would happen. .. He’s become so close with my brother as I imagined would happen. We’re obviously excited for the future and can’t get over this whole engagement and what’s to come.”
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Soulmate Vibes
During Dotun’s final date in Fiji, he presented Charity with a “scavenger hunt” of their Bachelorette journey. The hunt concluded with a locket that had each of their baby photos inside.
She Said Yes!
After Dotun proposed, Charity gave him her final rose. “You have made me feel alive. You’ve made me believe in love again. You’ve made me feel so valued and so seen,” she said during the episode. “And so, Dotun, when I stand here in this moment, I want a forever future with you. I see you as my husband. I see you as my future. I see it so clearly. I don’t have any doubts. I don’t question it.”
August 2023
During the couple’s appearance on After the Final Rose, Dotun informed Charity that she was joining the cast of Dancing With the Stars season 32.
“We both talked about it and it’s something that I didn’t really know was going to truly happen, but he, obviously, is so supportive of it, which I admire,” she told Us, noting Dotun would be relocating to California during the dance competition. “And he’s my biggest fan, which is great to have that. … We’ll be doing it together. He just won’t be the one dancing. I’ll be up there, [but] he’ll be along.”
Charity added that Dotun will “always be my priority” throughout her stint in the ballroom.
October 2023
Dotun has been Charity’s No. 1 cheerleader in the DWTS ballroom, which she’s noticed.
“I wanted to give Dotun his flowers … because, truly, your support in this season alone has been insane, but ever since the moment you stepped into my life, it has changed for the better,” Charity gushed via Instagram Story after the pair got home from “Most Memorable Year” night, in which she earned the first 10 of the season. “And so, I just want to thank you for pushing me.”
She added: “Little fact, right before I went on, Dotun went up to me and he told me to, ‘Leave it all out on the floor.’ So it was a really special moment and definitely got my wheels turning for [expressing] all of the emotions. So, thank you, baby.”
April 2024
Charity and Dotun shared sweet social media tributes for each other in honor of their 1st anniversary as a couple. “Even with the odds against us … You are the love that I didn’t expect, but changed my life for the absolute better, the way you love me and who you are proves to be true, day after day, that sometimes ‘a good thing is just a good thing,’” Charity wrote alongside a sneak peek of their engagement photos via Instagram. “I love you so much and forever grateful for you!”
Dotun, for his part, wrote via Instagram that he remembered “April 30, 2023 like it was yesterday,” adding, “Sitting in my hotel room in Fiji, uncertain of if you would accept me in the moments leading up to my proposal. To taking off my suit in our villa, staring at my new fiancé wondering and hoping that the love we were feeling would continue outside of that fantasy.”
He continued: “One year later and the fantasy has become our reality. Your endless love is an experience, thank you for showing me what it’s supposed to feel like. Proud of you, proud of us. Learning more everyday that a good thing can just be a good thing. Cheers baby 🫶🏾.”
May 2024
Charity and Dotun joined fellow Bachelor Nation couples Zach Shallcross and Kaity Biggar and Joey and Kelsey Anderson for a group trip to Hawaii. “No BIP?? no problem, I bring to you … Couples in Paradise,” Charity captioned a montage of video clips from their tropical trip via Instagram.
That same month, she and Dotun took another romantic getaway to Greece. “Taking it all in with my forever travel partner 🤍,” she wrote alongside Instagram pics of them posing in front of a gorgeous ocean view.