Former Primus drummer Tim ‘Herb’ Alexander provided a detailed written explanation of his decision to abruptly quit the band last month.
The drummer has shared his perspective in a lengthy statement for Rolling Stone magazine after the band’s statement in late October. He revealed that he ‘was in a dark place emotionally’ and ‘desperately missed my family while on tour and felt very lonely.’
“I know there are a lot of questions about why I quit Primus and feel it’s important to share my story — for myself as well as our fans,” the rocker started his statement. “Stepping away from Primus has been one of the most challenging decisions of my life, but ultimately, it came down to love — for myself, my family, and the life I want to create moving forward. I chose a path of love.”
The drummer clarified his earlier words about leaving the band. “With regard to what I said to the band about ‘losing my passion for playing,’ I did say that. But I also said: ‘All of these tours left me feeling empty. My body hurts constantly.’ This context is important. I also told them they deserve someone who wants to be there. And I meant it. As far as ‘abruptly’ goes, I suppose there’s never the perfect time to leave something you’ve been a part of for so long. Bands have their own inner workings and are a relationship. Sometimes it doesn’t feel balanced, and sometimes it doesn’t work out.”
“Over the past months, I’ve been in a place of deep healing and intensive mental health rehabilitation, learning to confront struggles I’ve carried for years. In this period of solitude, I’ve started to see with new clarity what no longer serves me, the people and situations that do not support my well-being, and the parts of my life I need to let go of to find peace and stability.” He added, “My decision to leave the band was rooted in a deep need to prioritize my mental and physical health. I want to give my family the presence and energy they deserve and take care of myself in a way that allows me to thrive.”
Primus announced in October that Alexander had left the band via email, citing that he had ‘lost his passion for playing.’
Even after the departure of Tim ‘Herb’ Alexander, Primus will go ahead with their scheduled shows. It’s reported that their New Year’s concert will have members of Frog Brigade and Holy Mackerel filling in as needed. For their sets at Tool’s ‘Live in the Sand’ festival, the band’s drummer Danny Carey will step in. Additionally, for their Sessanta 2025 tour dates, Primus plans to look for the ‘greatest drummer on earth.’
Alexander joined Primus in 1989 and left in 1996. He rejoined the band when they reformed in 2003, exited again in 2010, but made his return in 2013.